Does your parents or grandparents watch your kids? Here are some safety tips for grandparents who take care of their grandkids.
What Grandparents Need to Know
It can be a blessing for grandparents to be a part of their grandchildren’s lives. Often, grandparents are the first babysitters on the scene, or they live in the same home as their grandchildren. This means they are caring for a new generation of little kids in a new era of child care, driving them around, putting them to bed, feeding them, and much more.
There are times, unfortunately, when mistakes are unknowingly made by grandparents, causing sadness for families.
I remember a story about a 19 month old girl who was killed in a car crash in a car driven by her grandma. The first responders determined that her cause of death was due to the fact that she was not properly secured in her seat.
That scares me, and it may scare you too.
Here is what grandparents need to know when they are caring for our kids.
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Car Seat Safety for Kids
Gone are the days when little kids can just be buckled (or even unbuckled) in the back seat without a car seat. Gone are the days when little kids can sit in the front seat. And again, gone are the days when infants or toddlers under two years of age should be sitting forward in their car seats.
We know so much more now about car safety for kids than grandparents knew when they were raising their kids. We know that:
- infants and toddlers under the age of two should be in a rear facing car seat. If you have a seat that allows them to sit rear facing even longer, that’d be great, as we now know that little kids are safer rear facing than forward facing in a car crash. Chest buckles should be at the armpits, and straps should be snug.
- once forward facing, a child should use a five-point harness seat. Boosters shouldn’t be used until the child is 4 years old AND 40 lbs.
- no children under 13 years of age should ride in the front seat. This is due to air bags and how they can harm children in an accident.
For much more information, I highly suggest you and your child’s grandparents check out The Car Seat Lady. She has awesome information about everything to do with car seat safety.
Sleeping Safety for Babies
I know from experience: grandparents think it’s still okay for infants to sleep on their bellies, with stuffed animals, or with blankets on. Again, things have changed, and it all has to do with the health and safety of our babies.
We now know that:
- infants should sleep on their backs. The slogan is “Back is Best”. Researchers, when trying to discover why babies succumbed to SIDS, discovered that when babies slept on their backs, they had a much less chance of dying in their sleep (For more information, visit Babble’s helpful article Back to Sleep. ). That means no side sleeping either (popular in the 90s), which brings me to my next point…
- there should be nothing in the crib. That means no sleep positioners, no blankets, no pillows, no stuffed animals, no bumper. The crib should be bare except for a well-fitted sheet. Anything that could potentially suffocate baby should not be in the crib.
- babies can sleep in a swaddler, or sleep sack for warmth. These wearable blankets are made so that they do not cover a baby’s face as they sleep. I really liked the Halo swaddlers and sleep sacks, and for older babies the Zipadee Zip works wonders.
Food Safety for Babies and Toddlers
Did a grandparent ever suggest to you to give your baby sugar water? Or what about whisky on the gums for a teething toddler?
Yep, it happens still. There are so many things we now know about what foods and drinks are healthy for our kids and at what ages. We know:
- babies don’t need sugar water for any reason. Babies, especially infants, don’t need any extra water than what is already in their breastmilk or formula. Too much water can actually be bad for a baby. And heaven knows they don’t need any sugar at any time.
- babies and toddlers shouldn’t have any alcohol in any amount. This may seem like an obvious thing, but to some older grandparents, it may not. It was very common for parents to use a bit of whisky on the gums to ease teething pain. My great-grandfather used to say it all the time, and my grandmother still does! Doctors advise against using that old advice. Stick with a cold washcloth, teething toy, or other safe methods to ease teething pain.
- over the counter cough medicine shouldn’t be used for kids under the age of 5. Recently there has been a lot of concern about the ingredients in cough medicine and how they can be harmful or even deadly for little kids, especially in the wrong dosage. There are other things you can do to help little kids with coughs, including proper hydration, using humidifiers, and more. For tips, visit How to Treat a Sick Toddler.
- honey shouldn’t be given to a child under the age of 1. The digestive systems of kids under the age of 1 are not able to handle the spores in honey and treat them like toxins. It can cause severe illness, so severe that the child can not move or breathe.
- too many sweets aren’t always healthy. Okay,okay, this is for the grandparents who like to constantly give kiddos sweets or goodies. A few treats here and there are okay (depending on your parenting lifestyle) but an all day junk food fest isn’t healthy. Try to give healthy and fun snack options.
It may also be beneficial to discuss at what age your baby should start solid foods , what solid foods to start with and also what foods to avoid that may cause allergies. There are many schools of thought on these things, so you may want to invite your child’s grandparent to a doctor’s appointment to get tips from him or her.
What Grandparents Should Know
We know grandparents love our kids, but sometimes, they need a refresher course on what’s safe and healthy for the kids.
Share this with any grandparents you know!
What did I miss? What would you suggest that grandparents need to know? Tell me below!